when you will go said it me, I would come with you if you want
No offense meant here, but when I visit her resting place, I would like it to be just Judith and myself. Especially for my first visit, I need to let her know how I feel about her, and how much I love her. Thank you.
Post by nancybratt on Sept 5, 2008 21:57:52 GMT -6
After Judith died. I felt an incredible amount of guilt. Altho I was only almost 17, I thought that there were "signs" I shoudl have caught on. And I blamed myself for years for keepign silent. Looking back, I knwo I too was just a child. I held that guilt for many many years. Probably even now, 20 years later. It's something I will never forget or forgive myself for "missing"
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After Judith died. I felt an incredible amount of guilt. Altho I was only almost 17, I thought that there were "signs" I shoudl have caught on. And I blamed myself for years for keepign silent. Looking back, I knwo I too was just a child. I held that guilt for many many years. Probably even now, 20 years later. It's something I will never forget or forgive myself for "missing"
Nanny, Judith wouldn't want you to feel any sort of guilt, you were just a child back then, and she knows that. None of us who know you want you to feel guilty about it. Try hard not to beat yourself up, k? <3 Judith wouldn't want that, and neither do we. She knows that if you could've, you would've done everything in your power to prevent it, and we do too. <3
After Judith died. I felt an incredible amount of guilt. Altho I was only almost 17, I thought that there were "signs" I shoudl have caught on. And I blamed myself for years for keepign silent. Looking back, I knwo I too was just a child. I held that guilt for many many years. Probably even now, 20 years later. It's something I will never forget or forgive myself for "missing"
Nancy...you werent even an adult yet...there were many that should have seen those signs (CPS) and some that had even heard the threats (Like Jozefs beer buddies and neighbors) who were in a position to help and save Judith.
You and Trixy have to tell yourselves that it wasnt your fault...the guilty ones were the adults...I just wish that I was one of the adults arround when those signs were apparant...I would have stopped him.
Post by elizabeth1977 on Sept 25, 2008 14:07:23 GMT -6
The CPS and other adults are to blame here not you or Trixy. This is yet another murder that could so easily have been prevented if intervention had come earlier.
I do get upset every time I see that alleged "head wound" on Find A Death. *sigh* I feel just so terrible for the poor child whose picture has been mistakenly shown around the world, and that Judith's memory has been exploited by that one picture.
Both children at least deserve that privacy in death.
Every time I see it, I think, what if that was my little girl? What if someone had taken had an unauthorized picture of my baby in death and was showing it claiming it was someone else?
This is probably not the correct forum, but I implore the people of Find A Death to remove that picture. Thank you from "Just A Mom"
That guy is really messed up. I used to like his website, but since he has this picture and he's claiming it's Judith when it's obviously not, it takes his credibility down a few notches.
I don't like it also that he has a "death picture" claiming it JFK, Jr. when it's really not a possibility that it's him.
I guess it's one thing to do that to an adult but to do that to an innocent child who has suffered so much in life and died a tragic death... all I can say, that guy is a little warped.
Very, very sad and horrible to Judith's memory. She was such a sweet, sweet girl.
Post by gjscroggins81 on Oct 20, 2008 10:10:46 GMT -6
I find it hard to believe that he could get away with something like this...to me, pictures of this nature should be kept confidential, and they should be safe-guarded to prevent someone from taking them, and showing them to the world. I wonder if the parents of the child that's really in the picture know about this.